He: Won't Go

Before you resort to extreme measures, try the graduated approach. Most people aren't being malicious; they’re just comfortable.

Use "future-facing" language. "It was so great catching up! We’ll have to do this again soon," is a polite way of saying "this session is over." Alexis Grant suggests using the "YOU" voice to keep things relevant—try: "I know you have a busy morning tomorrow, so I should probably let you get some rest." 2. When the Subtlety Fails

Sometimes "He Won't Go" isn't about a physical space—it's about an ex or a former friend who keeps showing up in your DMs or your social circles. He Won't Go

Whether it’s a friend who doesn’t pick up on social cues, an ex who is lingering in your life, or a houseguest who has officially overstayed their welcome, the "He Won't Go" scenario is an awkward rite of passage.

"I’m going to head to bed in about ten minutes, but let me walk you to the door." Before you resort to extreme measures, try the

Since the phrase often describes a situation where a guest, an ex, or even a stubborn pet refuses to leave a space, the following blog post is written with a lighthearted but helpful "Advice & Etiquette" tone. The Uninvited Guest: What to Do When He Won't Go

You don't owe anyone instant access to your time. It’s okay to leave messages on read or mute stories. "It was so great catching up

Here is how to handle the lingerer without losing your sanity (or your manners). 1. The Art of the "Soft Exit"