"I should enjoy hiking." "I should read more classic literature." "I should be more of a morning person."If you’ve spent a decade trying to like something just because it seems "better," put it on the list. If you hate kale, stop eating kale. If you’d rather watch a Rotten Tomatoes certified "rotten" comedy than a three-hour historical epic, do it. Your free time isn't a performance. 3. Release the One-Sided Friendships
We’ve all heard of the —that aspirational scroll of mountains to climb, languages to learn, and skydiving photos to post. It’s meant to be inspiring, but let’s be honest: sometimes it just feels like another "To-Do" list for a life that’s already too busy. Enter the F k-It List.** The F**k-It List
We all have that one person we text who takes three business days to respond with a "lol." Life is too short to be the only person keeping a connection on life support. If they aren't matching your energy, put that obligation on the F**k-It List and move on. 4. End the "Hustle" Obsession "I should enjoy hiking
When you stop caring about the things that don't matter, you finally have the energy for the things that do. Your free time isn't a performance
Here is why you need one, and how to start crossing things off. 1. Stop Chasing "The Aesthetic"